Hi there! Thank you for reading and reaching out :) That's an excellent question.

Here are a few books that have helped me process gender-based trauma:

- "Addiction to Perfection" by Marion Woodman

- "Circle of Stones" by Judith Duerk

- "Cassandra Speaks" by Elizabeth Lesser

- "Women Who Run with the Wolves" by Clarissa Pinkola

I would add that exploring polyamory has helped me a lot. Accepting monogamy as the only relationship choice made me feel trapped for a long time.

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